One glaring sign is when the relationship is already damaging to you. You’re no longer yourself, and you lose your self-esteem in the process, too.

Another indication is when your needs aren’t met. Your partner may be expressing love in a way that doesn’t satisfy your deep emotional needs, or you may be looking for a different kind of experience altogether.

It’s also time to let the relationship go when you’re no longer on the same page. You may not have the same goals anymore, forcing the relationship to stop moving forward.

Additionally, you and your partner might be experiencing serious conflicts that you can’t resolve any longer. According to marriage specialist Dr. John Gottman, there are four types of these conflicts that often lead to breakups. The first is criticism—your partner says offensive remarks targeted at who you are. The second is stonewalling—your partner withdraws and shuts down communication. The third is defensiveness—your partner places the blame on you instead of taking responsibility. Finally, there’s contempt—your partner blatantly belittles you and doesn’t offer support.

If you experience one or multiple of these signs, it’s your cue to start reconsidering the relationship. Ask yourself whether you can still tolerate your significant other’s behavior and work out your issues together.

If the answer isn’t a solid yes, it’s high time to bow out of the relationship. Remember that failed relationships don’t automatically label you as a failure, and it’s okay to leave when it’s really time to do so. Ground yourself in self-love, and you’ll know that being single doesn’t equate to being lonely.

Jan 07, 2024 1:02:01pm

Follow these ten rules when in a relationship.

Relationships are so complex that you can’t just jump into one blindly. Just as a ship needs navigation equipment to reach its destination, you and your partner need relationship rules to increase your chances of success.

Vex King outlines ten important relationship rules that can guide you on this journey.

Rule #1. Don’t forget the small gestures. While seemingly insignificant, it’s the little things that help keep your relationship from going stale. Regularly show small gestures of love like sending cute texts or trying out a new hobby together.