Polyamory

Is it true that after the first afair, from the next and onwards human becomes polyamorous and it's possible to raise children co-operatively among multiple parents?

Polyamory, which involves having multiple consensual, loving relationships at the same time, is a complex and varied practice that differs greatly from person to person. It’s important to note that not everyone who has an affair becomes polyamorous. Polyamory is a conscious choice and lifestyle, not a default state after having an affair.

As for raising children in a polyamorous family, it’s indeed possible and is being practiced by some. Many people assume that it’s harmful for children to have more than two parents1. However, multiple parents are common in stepfamilies, where a child may have as many as four parents from two blended families1. In many cultures where polygyny is permitted, children often grow up with several mothers who cooperate in caring for each other’s children1.

Polyamorous families are one way that some people are counteracting the isolation of the lone nuclear family and finding ways to provide at-home caretakers for children1. However, there is still a dearth of research investigating the important question of how polyamory affects children12.

If you’re considering starting a family within a polyamorous relationship, it’s crucial to communicate openly and honestly with all involved parties about expectations, roles, and responsibilities3. It’s also important to consider the legal and social implications, as these can vary greatly depending on your location and circumstances4.

Remember, every family is unique, and what works for one might not work for another. It’s essential to find a balance that respects everyone’s needs and boundaries. If you’re considering this path, it might be helpful to seek advice from professionals or others who have experience with polyamorous parenting5.